Looking for a gay partner
Michael speaks
A guy looking for a guy is not like a guy looking for a gal.There is more subtlety involved.First, one needs to be absolutely sure the other is of the same kind.Little gestures,body language,a stance,a glance,a comment,a smile all carry messages.Often,the other party thinks it is just friendship.To be rejected once the other party realizes it is a gay thingy is a very real thing.
Second,some guys who are straight do not mind gay sex especially if they play the dominant role.Like a famous man once said,a man wants sex any way he can get it.But he will never suffer the indignity of being the bottom unless he is gay.
On the other hand,a gay couple find it easer to get along with each other as they have basically ’similar’ outlooks.
But like a straight couple there has to be a top and a bottom. If both are similar,a satisfactory sexual union cannot happen.There are other ways of course,but it won’t be the real thingy.
Once a couple has sexually coupled, the bonding is there.However beware of the one-night-stands especially if they come with empty promises.It is however ok if a sexual liaison is a mutually accepted ‘one-time-fling’.
Posted in on May 28th, 2007 by suzie | |
on May 28th, 2007 at 3:10 pm
I am not gay but can understand ur reasonings.
A man may love another man.I dont find that wrong but it is the sex part which I think I cannot handle.I am quite a prude.I am not made to be a gay but I dont hold anything against gay’s. It is their choice just as like mine.
Can there just be love for each other without the sex part? I dont think that is possible..Put two naked man in a room…. u can imagine what will happen..keke!
I have never shared my life with another man and in that kind of situation sex maybe a natural progression in that climate or conditions .I have a phobia about involving in having sex with the same kind.I dont think I want to try it.Period.
Most woman can accept a transexual man as their kind. It is only some monkeys and some religious bigots who have problems.Some people also may have problems handling transexuals.They are not very sure of their sexuality. Are u really a woman or a man? Even if u go for a complete sex change, u are still considered a man.U cannot change the sex in ur ID.
on May 28th, 2007 at 3:47 pm
Suzie
If u are reading this post, please delete this statement as I realized it has been written in bad taste. I reservely apologised if anyone feel offended..
“It is only some monkeys and some religious bigots who have problems.”