How to put romance back into ur relationship..!
Laura speaks:
Remember ur first thrilling and on cloud nine romance? How u fell in love with ur hunky,tall, dark and handsome beau? Now that u have married and have kids and life is so boring and a drudgery .U feel that romance is absent or has waned and u recalled those happy and sweet memories when life was so carefree and he was romancing u.U were like two ‘happy go lucky’ guys without a hitch in the world.
U want to energize and spice up ur love life but dont know how to go about it or u are directionless ,just bobbing neither here or there and just being carried away by the ocean currents where it wants.U crave for the close intimacies, all those sweet nothings and his attentions and affections.Those wonderful sweet , euphoric feelings or sensations of being in love..
U want to seek a fresh purpose to the meaning of ur marriage life which has become so dull and drab.Though u may not be physically as beautiful as before and he is not as handsome as he used to be , u could still have some fun and fantasies in ur life.U could recharge those dormant feelings and have a blast…
If u are just in love with ur partner and have no romantic love, u will sense a feelings of emptiness, for u would have missed those wonderful and fascination romantic thoughts and feelings.Imaginations and fantasies are what makes our life interesting and pleasurable.
If u have no romantic love and still dont know if it is love,thats is even more muddled and confused…keek! U would have to sit by the river banks and wait till the water subsides and see the stones at the bottom of the river bed.Then u would know whether it is love or not.Time will tell and u need to be very patient.If u dont feel it, then it is not love.
How to be romantic and have those happy and sensual feelings again?
The answer is very simple and yet many dont realize it.. Just fall in love again..!U fall out of love and u need to go back in again using another door or the same door..keek!Maybe u got to say “Zam Zam ala Kazam!†and the magical door of the romance world opens to u..keke!
To fall in love again , it will have to be the woman who will have to spark the fire of romance .The man would have fallen into a rut and forgotten by now how to romance or thought it is over.
It is to the advantage of the women to create the atmosphere of romance .Let those emotions of romantic love out of the dark cage .Feel and experience those emotional romantic thoughts, the sights , the sensual and soft touch , those caresses, the sounds.Use ur imaginations, what kind of romantic love u would want to share with ur husband or b/f.
Looked at him again through the eyes of another woman and see what u still see in him .All those qualities that u admired before .Have u taken him for granted?U complained about his insensibilities and his obtuse ways but u never realized that u also took him for granted .Man are also sentimental beings and they need adorations and that he is still attractive to u.
If u want to be romantic, u need to visualize ,read more love stories , see more love dramas.Use more imaginations, feed ur thoughts with more inmaginations , fantasies ,dreams and then they will intensify ur emotions and feelings.Stop dreaming about the other gorgeous guy which is out of bounds to u and look inwards.Provide him with a romantic climate or atmosphere where his senses is tilltilated ,soft dim lights or candle lights , soft romantic musics wafting in the backgrounds, wear those sexy outfits , sit near him and switched of the T.V or all distractions.Walk hand in hand in the garden or take him to a beautiful place where u can feel the beauty and the love …
Go to those intimate restaurants where the ambience is conducive to kindle romantic feelings.U could also go to those parks or beaches to picnic, just the two of u.Make him feel exuberant, enchanted and fascinated with u again .Love will bloom a second time ,when he hold’s u in his strong arms and u radiate like the most beautiful orchid or rose .
Why are still waiting for..? Use ur tongue not for criticizing , complain and naggings but to show him and praise and give him a lick or two..keke!
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on May 31st, 2007 at 4:30 pm
The culture of blaming others for our ills…
It is senseless to blame others or your environment for your miseries. Change begins from the moment you muster the courage to act. When you change, the environment will change. The power to change the world is found nowhere but within our own life.
Daisaku Ikeda.
I was once married to a person who blamed everyhting on me and others and never saw her own faults,until one day, I told her why not blamed ur father and mother for it was them who give birth to u and caused u to grow up with that kind of mentality.The mother of all blames..keke!
Some people can see the saw dust in other’s eye but do not see the plank in their own eyes. They see others are at fault and are the caused of their failures or mistakes. They are always right and others are wrong.U need to understand and see from the other person’s perspective and give the benefits of doubts. If u make any mistakes or face any problems , u are a part of the problem,learn to accept mistakes and change ur outlook.U need to be an optimist and not a pssimist.Be positive for it can bring positive actions into ur thoughts and actions.
Try not to put the blame on others….Look inwardly and see what we will need to do the appropriate thing if there is a next time again.
on May 31st, 2007 at 5:52 pm
My husband-father-lover-friend..
A man has to be a maverick and juggles a few roles to keep his marriage happy.He is not only a husband but will have to be the father figure, lover and friend mode when his wife switches from one mode to another.
It is like she has many facets of her personalities when she becomes a wife, daughter ,lover and friend. She enjoys when u become one of those characters that suit her temperaments at that instant.
The young wife expects her man to play those chameleon roles well but being a young and emotionately immatured fella , he will disappoint her .He will normally incapable of satifying all her needs .Consequently , she will feels frustrated , disappointment and resentment towards her husband.
For a man , he looks for affections,sexual fullfillment, a wife, mother , lover and friend.
She too being young and inexperienced will not be able to meet his needs.He too will feel resentment, anger and hatred boiling inside of him.
Marriage is not a bed of of roses but a bed full of thorns too..keke!Not only the bed got thorns but their body also full of invisible thorns , pricking each other.The man having a giant thorn , so beware,u have been warned ..haha!
When two people plan to get married, they will not feel those problems until reality sets in..
Before marriage, most woman make the mistake of thinking that they will be able to change the man.
During the romance, she gets what she wants from the man and he will try to please her in whatever ways and put up or tolerate with all sorts of unreasonable, illogical or irrational demands from her.keke! He treats her like a queen and if she wants his head, he may even chop it down for her..keek!When she become his, she will realised that her reign was only temporary, and the tables are turned..
Some dominant woman would continue their reigns.Some woman even though they are physically small, but they have a very dominant and strong character ,that the man just obeyed to keep the peace in the house..keke!
They are now stuck together somewhere in a black hole in outer space and they cannot get what they want from each other. Both will then resort to manipulations and subtle blackmails when they do not get what they wanted.
She will withhold her affections and dont care less atittude as a form of punishments. While he will control or manipulate his wife through the finances if she is a full time housewife and refuse to communicate or suddently lose his speech and showed his dark Pao Kong face..keke!
These are the battles in marriage…just a glimse of what marriage is about.
Dont worry,when u find the right one… go ahead and marry because u will be well prepared and armed with the latest technology and weapons to fight him..keke!
on May 31st, 2007 at 9:03 pm
Why a man dislike a competitive and argumentative wife..?
A man may love an intelligent woman as his wife but he would not like a wife who argues and debate’s any thing and everything with him.
Neither does he like a wife who always challenges him.Wife should be demure and feminine. Just tell him what u think and give ur opinions and not to argue. If he says do it this way , just accept his way. This way u please him..
If he see’s ur point and agree’s with u, u would have the satisfaction of knowing that ur way is better or superior…keek!
It is frustrating when u want ur wife to do something and she would argue and do it her own way or in her own sweet time.This is also true for the woman who nags often to get things done..keke!
U see many couples arguing over many little inconsequential and trivial matters. Always garrulous and rambling non stop.They will argue and challenge each other and never admit they are wrong but want the other person to see their point of view or agree with him.Sometimes he wins and sometimes there is stalemate and unresolved and two not on speaking terms or give the other the hand sign…keke!
Sometimes we argue with friends over our views to no end until one party walks away unsatisfied.
Usually to end all arguments and settle the matter, I would tell the other party, “O.K !Lah! I’ll let u win.! ” That would take the wind out of their sail..keek! He wanted a verbal fight but I ‘kaput’ early and he felt like no fun. He wanted to beat me and so get a morale boasting ego puff up..keek!
A woman who likes to argues and want people to listen to her views only or win at all cost in any disputes is a turn off and show off.
Woman are great talkers than man..
on May 31st, 2007 at 9:09 pm
There is no point in arguing ,he is entittled to his opinions and why forced him to believe ur way. Who is right or wrong doesnt matter as long as u think u are right. If he doesnt see ur way, so be it..He keep his opinions and u yours.. If u keep on arguing then u may lose ur friend..keek!Case closed.
on June 1st, 2007 at 9:20 am
Suggested further readings..
Revitalize Your Marriage: Here’s How!
http://www.gnmagazine.org/issues/gn67/marriage.htm
on June 1st, 2007 at 10:17 am
Thank you, I am sorry, I love u,U are beautiful..
Those words may just be two or three short ,little words but when it is uttered out ,it can brighten the sky and chase away any dark gloomy clouds. It is sweet ,delightful and pleasing music to the woman’s ears.
They give the hearer the satisfaction and joy especially to woman .Yet, those three litlle words are seldom uttered by the man.It is sometimes difficult for some man to express their feelings .They should know that those three little words are like the keys to a woman’s heart and health.
Some man dont even have those feelings in their heart, crowded out by the problems of work and life.Their heart has no place for their wife except when they want to have sex ..keke!
They take their wife for granted as though his wife is an extension of his mother.
Dont forget to say ‘thank you ‘when she does something for u or even if she does not do anything.U can thank her for the many things she has done for u to show her ur appreciations and love.It will always make her feel heart happy and the reassurance is good for her self esteemed .
If u are wrong or even if u are right, as a man u should be the first to say sorry to her, if u want ur relationship to come back to the normal level as before in double quick time.U should be graceful , forgive and asked for forgiveness ,like a father to a daughter.
Sometimes she knows she is in the wrong but she would not admit it because of her pride or ego.Saying ,’I am sorry!” will heal the rift faster .Ur emotional hurts or wounds will get healed faster .Without the ‘I am sorry ‘, those wounds would fester and turned gangrene..a stitch in time save nine..keke!Who is right or wrong does not matter as long as u remove those mental road blocks in her mind.
A woman needs to be reassured of ur love verbally, so just whisper into her ears,I love u’ ,1000 times, she wont get fed up..keke!Just ignore what she will reply u because in her heart , she longs to hear those three little words..
If u want ur wife to look beautiful and radiant, u need to say often , ‘darling ,u are beautiful ‘You will reinforced her self opinion that she is a beautiful person and such positive thoughts really make her feel beautiful inside and outside.
Start to get used to saying those three little words more often for u will reap bountifully..she will be like an angel and a shining precious diamond, rubies or sapphires…..
Suzie;- Thank you for ur comments,for everything,
for being what u are and who u are, a very beautiful and wondrous person in mind , thoughts and actions.I am sorry if there are any mistakes or if I said or wrote anything offensive or bring any harsh criticisms to ur blog.HUGS!
Further readings..
http://www.gnmagazine.org/issues/gn67/marriage_fourwords.htm
on June 2nd, 2007 at 4:19 pm
My daughter was like her mom, u said one word , she would hit back with ten..(Cantonese people say,”Ga chat chat!).keke!Yet, it is she who is closer to me and we can communicate everything with ease and freely .Can u imagine yourself as a daughter asking or discussing sex topics with ur dad.If u can , then u would enjoy a very close relationship to ur dad.
Being a single parent also helped me to understand what I would have missed if it was a normal family setting. The man would just expect his wife to handle most of the running in the house.
Many man do not understand as their wife is capable of taking care of the children and so they feel there is no need of them to get involved.
Man and woman are different .Woman are more prone to emotions and may sometimes go overboard.
When my son did not take his bath or missed his studies , my wife who was stressed out by work or pressure took out her stress on the kid.She swung the rotan with all her might (unknowingly or unconsciouly or unaware of her strength and anger)until the skin breaks. I would only scold my son and give him a piece of my mind but I will not use the rotan to punished him. The only time I punished him was to use a ruler to beat his palm with appropriate force and told him his mistakes after being warned before There is a big difference when a father and mother disciplines a wayward child.
In the present context, a man not only must be the breadwinner ,but must also share in the household chores and the upbringing of their children together as woman also are working..
Be fair and square….man must take more proactive role in the kids life…
on June 2nd, 2007 at 4:30 pm
Why are fathers important..?
http://www.gnmagazine.org/issues/gn64/fathersimportant.htm
on June 2nd, 2007 at 4:37 pm
Fathers are too busy with work and there is no other man except the grandpa . He will have much time with the children and horse play with them..Children always like to play . Granpa will become a horse and then all will climb on his back and ride him and grandpa would rock and walk like a horse…keke! Mothers dont do that kind of thing because being female , it is not their kind of fun…
on June 2nd, 2007 at 5:52 pm
Quick-getaway Casanova held
PENANG: He is good looking and a smooth talker and invites women he befriended in Internet chat rooms for dates. Then he steals from them before leaving them literally stranded by the roadside.
However, the quick-getaway days of the 30-year-old Casanova came to an end when police tracked him down and arrested him at his Sungai Ara flat on May 23.
More than 40 women had their cars and valuables stolen while on a first date with the man. Some of his victims were from as far away as Shah Alam.
It is learnt that the man would go into Internet chat rooms and target women in their 20s and 30s. He would then exchange phone numbers with them before taking them out for dinner.
The man would take over the “wheels†if the women have cars or he would volunteer to pick them up from their homes if they did not have transport.
Sources said that after dinner he would take the women for a drive. He would then stop the car and ask them to get him a box of tissues from the boot.
The moment the women got out of the car, he would speed off, taking along with him their handbags containing their handphones and money.
Two vehicles, a Proton Waja and Iswara, belonging to the women which he sold off at “cheap sale†prices were recovered on the mainland and in Kulim earlier this week.
Only a few women have made police reports.
State CID chief Senior Asst Comm (II) Datul Abdul Samah Mat confirmed the arrest and urged the public, especially women, not to be so trusting.
From the Star papers.
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Laura speaks
Why are woman so trusting?
40 woman conned…!!What does it tell u ? Woman are easily taken in by a handsome and smooth talking man…The Chinese have a saying .. ‘to sien char bo..’ (To tell lies to woman ).Those woman must be pretty desperate to find a husband and went alone to meet that man. Some even dare not report their loss for fear of being laughed at for being such fools. Woman are too straight. They should meet the man in a public place and then go back their separate ways .One can never judge a book by it’s covers.Woman should not trust their intuitions, they can be wrong sometimes and she will pay a big price.
They endanger themself . They could have been rape ,killed and thrown into the river or burnt in their car..
on June 2nd, 2007 at 6:09 pm
Would u go on a blind date..?
Going on a blind date maybe fun and exciting but if u meet a wolf in sheeps clothing , ur life will not be the same again.
I think those who go on a blind date is really foolish.Date only those man u know well or somebody u know where he works and stays.Should anything happens , then u will be able to trace him . But if anything happened to u , knowning him also no use cause u have been violated and nothing will change that.
The date rape drug is easily available and after the date u wake up in somebody’s room ,u are a gone case.Maybe , u may also find one of ur kidneys missing…Dont play play…! better be safe than sorry.
on June 2nd, 2007 at 7:29 pm
Why he buys anything got money, but when u want to buy anything,got no more money..?
Such man are quite selfish and want to control the wife finances.If u are a full time housewife, u will face such problems.We all know ,usually it is the man who make the money and woman who spend it..keke!U cannot blame the man as sometimes some woman really spend what they dont really need. When there is an offer , they will go and buy even when they dont need those things.Buy and keep or like the mouse, simply horde everything and everything. Just go look at their fridge or kitchen cabinets .U can find so many things that are never used or expired…woman mah! Woman are like that way, cant help it.
It is better the wife works and she can spend her own money anyway she wants .Woman has many needs..They have very bad eyes. Whatever they see, they want to buy..keke!They love to spend and spend if it is their husbands money.But if it is their own money , they will think a hell lot whether to buy or not. Her money is blood , sweat and tears. She knows how hard it is to earn her money but does not feel the same urgency when it comes from her husband’s..keke!
Some couples have a shared a/c to put in a certain percentage of their salary into the kitty for all the expenses and leave some for thier own to spend as they like. This is good if the woman earns more than the man.
Suggested reading…
http://www.christianitytoday.com/mp/2007/002/14.16.html
on June 2nd, 2007 at 7:59 pm
Do u believe there is a God or Gods in this world..?
Some people belief in one God and some people believed that there are many Gods in this world or universe .There are others who think there are no God .Some people dont believe in God but belief in ghosts, spirits and evil forces that lurked behind trees,old houses and ant hills.
These people believed that there are spirits eveywhere and when they want to release , they asked the ‘Datuk’ to forgive them or pray to them before relieving,otherwise, they will find their equipment swollen and painfull..This is no joke.
Whatever ur belief,I hope that u will find peace in ur soul.Everyone is entittled to their belief.Whether u believed there is a God or not, there is an unseen Law of the Universe.Whatever u sow , so shall u reap.If u live by the sword, u will die by the sword.
I used to pray and worship to alot of Gods..but one day when I lost everything, my family and my business and when everything looked like the end of the world for me, I found my one true God. I met my God in 1988 and have been faithfull to Him eversince.I became a born again Christian.
Even when in times of troubles ,He gave me hope and allowed me to see a different perspective of what life is all about.To know Him is to understand love and forgiveness…
Suggested readings..
Who is God..?
http://www.gnmagazine.org/booklets/WG/indepthanswers.htm
on June 2nd, 2007 at 8:19 pm
“The moment the women got out of the car, he would speed off, taking along with him their handbags containing their handphones and money.”
When u get out of the car, never leave ur handbags in the car. Ur handbag should always be stuck to ur hand..keek! Never mind if he thinks u are a wacko or dont trust him.Getting into a car with a man u only know through the internet is dangerous. I met two internet lady friends from SG and Australia. They came with their husbands and we had a fun time in PG.
Always be wary of whom u are dealing with.
on June 2nd, 2007 at 9:03 pm
Does life has a purpose..?
Do u know what’s ur purpose in this life on Earth? Many dont know and just exist , eat ,sleep , work and then exhale..keek!Many will just worry about where will he find the money for all those car, house , credit card and loans installments .Life is just an endless bill paying journey and there is no end in sight.The road tolls keep going up and u have no choice but to pay through ur nose..keke!
When u were young, u never give a thought and u just enjoyed life and what life brings.Ur purpose in life was to enjoy and spend ur parents money..keke! I want this ,I want that , put into old dad’s a/c.keke!U dont worry if ur dad has to polish his boss or work extra hours.Sometimes, I pity those dads when their children want something which he can ill afford. It is just heart breaking when the young dont realise the pain to the dad’s heart and pocket.His love for the children prevails and they get what they wanted.How many children learn to think… ?If they know how to think , then they are no more childrens or teenagers .
When u started working , u dream of getting married ,have kids and make plenty of money .U think this was ur purpose in life , be successful and show the world that u have reached there.. the pinnacle of ur success in life.
When u are old, u reflect back on what u have done and achieved.It is possible , u would still not have discovered what is ur purpose in life?
Why u were born and had to live this easy or hard life which is not of ur choice.
I have found my purpose in life… to be here and write my story..keke!
Have u found ur purpose in life yet? Keep searching , if u cant find it, just take one day at a time and enjoy each day as it comes..let tomorrow takes care of itself..
on June 2nd, 2007 at 10:04 pm
The greatest pain in ur life….
In life , there are many moments of happiness and many moments of despair and pain.As u go through life , u will alternate between happines & joy and despair & pain and some pains are undelible and unforgetable till eternity.
Each of us have many woeful tales to tell in the course of our life.The pain of losing someone whom u loved the most .The pain of not making it big or successful in life.The pain of loving somebody who never knew u existed or loving somebody but he married another guy.The pains of failing in ur exams and not getting that promotions.The pains of ur spouse unfaithfullness
and treachery.The pains of being cheated and stabbed in the back by ur friends.The pains of being ignored and forgotten.
I dont know or can recall my greatest pain because my life is full of pain..keke!Every pain makes me feel stronger .Actually , it is very sad that my family broke up and I did my best which was not enough.That was the greatest pain I had to go through. When a man cant help but shed tears of sorrow and felt very powerless and not able to anything when the ship broke and sank to the bottom of the ocean. A man seldom cries…
on June 2nd, 2007 at 10:09 pm
Today , I read in the news in the Star, a big man with tatto’s on his body cried in the police station and his mom came to bail him out..keke!
This man attacked another man in the supermarket and then the other man’s mother called the police when this tatto man called for reinforcements.
Macho man crying…
on June 2nd, 2007 at 10:31 pm
Sometimes We Must Hurt, In Order To Grow
God didnt promise that u will have a good life .Life is full of challenges or we will never grow smart and intelligent.
We make mistakes and fail inorder to succeed.Nobody can jump this high without failing once or twice.We all need to learn from our mistakes.Everyone learns to walk before they can run. If u failed , it is not a sin .It is only a sin when u give up without trying.Where there is a will , there will be a way.
Sometimes , lessons in life are best learn through pains.This would teach us how to appreciate the finer things in life.How to appreciate someone who give all her life for u.
When our proud spirit is broken and we realized that there is a greater power than us .Our hard heart needs to be broken to make it new and tender .Our eyes need to be awashed with tears so that we need to see more clearly
and our body sick so that we have the time to reflect about all around us.
If u are suffering now , take heart for u will come out a stronger and better man.The wheels of fortune is not stationary. and it will turn soon. What goes down will come up again.U need to look at the bigger picture and beyond. Have faith and hope and in God we trust…Amen!
on June 3rd, 2007 at 10:13 am
Hi Suzie,
Sorry for the bottom useless info.. I wanted to delete but dont know how it got uploaded.. technical glitch. sorry for the errors..
After this paragraph, please delete..
When faced with a patient with SDS, “the initial approach should be a thorough urological, psychosexual, psychological and psychiatric assessment, possibly with more than one clinician involved,†they write.
Thank you.
on June 3rd, 2007 at 1:52 pm
Yelling at ur children…!!
Why do u have to yell so loud when ur child is just near u? Is ur child deaf?U may have spoken in a normal tone to ur child but he seems to ignore u and u began to raise ur voice and yelled at the top of ur lung again. U hoped this will moved him to obey u because u sound more fierce..keke!
After sometime, u become used to yelling loudly at ur kids when u want them to do anything or to obey u.Sounds like a dyfunctional family.Imagine what it is like when ur mom yelled at u and showing her tigress face…the effects on the kids is even worse.U may frightened them or some of the children have developed an inmmune system against u..keek!
Some parents dont mean to yell at their kids but after a frustrating day at work , stress and pressure,they lose control of their voice volume control .
U can discipline ur child without resorting to yelling or screaming.The child is too young to understand what u wanted or simply he is a child..Be more patient and more lenient in ur discipline. U are not training a dog…keke!
on June 3rd, 2007 at 2:24 pm
If you start doing more stuff with your husband, you’ll find he actually has a lot to say. And he’ll listen a lot better, too…Ron R. Lee
Thats the secret of understanding ur mate.But….???It does not sound so simple as u think.It depends on what stuff u are doing. If u are going on a trip and nothing much about technicals or what boys do, then u will be welcome.
If it is fixing something or repair in the house, the man may not want u to be near him as u could be arguing with him or pass unfavourable comments.
If u know how to just sit there, pretend u are interested in what he is doing and talk to him and help him in simple things like holding something or get his tools , then he would appreciate ur presence.
If u start to give orders or want things to go ur way, u will sure bicker and end of the communications.He would want u to get lost and leave him in peace.
It is just like when ur mate comes into ur kitchen to help u in ur cooking.If he is helpful and says nice things, u would enjoy his presence but if he thinks he is smarter and starts to criticise or disagrees with u.. u will think he is a nuisance and banished him from ur kitchen..keke!
Suggested reading..
http://www.christianitytoday.com/tcw/2001/julaug/8.50.html
on June 3rd, 2007 at 3:06 pm
My bunch of golden keys…..!
These golden keys open and unlock many doors to a world of gracious and elegant living.
Each morning when I waked up ,I will wished the first person I see,”Good morning!” to have a cheerful and breezy day.
Every morning I say “Thank u!” to God for this day He has made and to everyone who helps me even if they just smile at me without saying anything.
“May I or Please or Please excuse me!”When I want to ask or request something in good faith and not appear rude or uncouth.
When I am wrong or u are angry I will use this key,” I am sorry!”The mistake is all mine.That will take the sting out of the anger.
When I meet a friend, I will say,”U are beautiful today!”It will always bring me a big smile and a cheer.
To my spouse and children , “I love u!”,give them a warmth hug and kiss every night before I turn off to bed.
on June 3rd, 2007 at 6:34 pm
The female rules..
1. The Female always makes THE RULES.
2.THE RULES are subject to change without
notice.
3. No Male can possible know all THE
RULES.
4. If the Female suspects the Male knows all THE
RULES, she must immediately change some of THE
RULES.
5. The Female is never wrong.
6. If it appears the Female is wrong, it is because of a flagrant
misunderstanding caused by something the Male did or said
wrong.
7. If Rule #6 applies, the Male must apologize
immediately for causing the misunderstanding.
8.The Female can change her mind at any time.
9. The Male must never change his mind without the
express written consent of The Female.
10.The Female has every right to be angry or upset at
any time.
11. The Male must remain calm at
all times, unless the Female wants him to be
angry or upset.
12. The Female must, under no
circumstances, let the Male know whether she wants him to be
angry or upset.
13. The Male is expected to
read the mind of the Female at all times.
14.At all times, what is important is what the Female
meant, not what she said.
15. If the Male doesn’t abide by THE RULES, it is because he can’t take
the heat, lacks backbone, and is a wimp.
16. If the Female has PMS, all THE RULES are null and
void and the Male must cater to her every
whim.
17. If the Male, at any time, believes he is
right, he must refer to Rule #5.
Author ..Unknown
on June 3rd, 2007 at 7:03 pm
Through the wires….
Good friends are forever,
Good friends are for keeps.
When I see your name,
My heart skips and leaps.
Whether pen pal on computer,
Or I can daily hug you;
You are my friend for what is inside you.
For my part I see that this friendship has grown;
To something imbedded deep
Like I’ve never known.
I look forward to seeing your name everyday.
If only for a moment
It is just to say, “Hey!”
Whether my day is lonely or full.
That one small word
My heart you pull.
Through the wires
These words I send to let you know,
You are my friend!
Written by: Kathie Bishop,
1/16/00
on June 3rd, 2007 at 8:14 pm
Be thankful….
Some of us never realise how fortunate we are in this part of the world.Many of us feel that we still lacked something and everything and envy all those richman who flaunt his wealth around.
We want more money , bigger house or two or three big luxurious bungalows or condo’s,bigger cars, more ,more of everything.We want the whole world and everything in it..keke!This one only can dream after 12.00pm midnight show.
We should be thankful for what we have , all those credit card debts ,all those car and house bought on loans and paying through ur teeth.
We should be thankful that we are still living , being healthy and have enough to eat.We should be thankful that we can still express our thoughts fully and write whatever we wished in blogs .
If u have everything u desire, then what is there to look forward to..?U might want to try drugs or those illegal and dangerous things .Be thankful that u dont have enough or the lack of it.
If u know everything there is to know, then there is nothing to learn anymore and life would be uninteresting..keke!Be thankful that u only know that little much.
If u have an easy life without difficulties and challenges in life , then how can u grow up and be strong.Be thankful for those difficult and challenging times because they will help build up ur strength and character.If without those difficulties and challenges, u would become a wimp..
U know u cannot do everything and have got limitations. Be thankful for those limitations for then only u can make improvements.If u have no limitations and the sky is the limit..how can u improve when u dont know ur limitations..keke!
(Comprehendo?..No??..keke! )
In life, u will make plenty of mistakes because no one is born a smart ass..everybody is dumb before they become a smart ass..keke!Be thankful for all those mistakes because they teach u a valuable lesson in life.
If u have a very rich life or rich fulfillment, it is easy to be thankful or u could be very ungrateful.The more u have ,the more u want.
If u have setbacks or things that dont go ur way,be thankful, for God has a purpose for u which u dont see or know.Always be thankful to the Almighty for He wills everything to happen.