Will love surmount all..?
Laura speaks:
Most woman want to get married , establish a home and have kids .The problem is finding a compatible and right mate.The higher they are educated, the lesser are their chances of getting married because the Malaysian man of the same educational background would prefer to marry down .This is speaking generally speaking but there are exceptions to the rule.
Why do these highly educated man prefer to marry down and not marry woman of their same standards? Those man would like to be treated like a king and the lesser educated woman would be the kind of subservient and submissive wife they prefer.
The highly educated and liberated woman wants to be treated as equals in a marriage and this maybe the reason many man want to marry down so that they can boss the woman around. Some man dont like intellectuals and they would feel like second class.. Some brainy woman are smart to get a husband by acting dumb before marriage..keek!
Some woman before marriage make the mistake of thinking that if there is love , they can surmount everything. Before marriage , everything can, because of love but after marriage everything cannot because no more love… Cannot give love anymore because never receive love from the other side..keke!
Love can surmount many things but the problem is how deep is ur love?Love needs to be very patient , matured and kind .Will u be very patient and wait.U are used to getting things done pronto and instant and u were being served and not serving others. This reverse role maybe hard to those not used to serving others..keek!
Will u stop criticizing him, complain everything about him and stop trying to control him..?Most woman unconsciously want to control their man and criticize and condemn him , driving him further away from ur arms and sometimes into another’s arm.
Sometimes ur husband is inconsiderate, forgetful, thoughtless and have unacceptable behaviours,u need to have love and be patient.Easy to say in theory..keke!Everyone has their limits..Who sets the rules in the house? U can be the boss in the office, come back home ,I’ll be the boss ..or tonight u sleep in the dog house..keke!
Neither can u be so patient as to become a doormat or lose ur identity….U need to be in control of yourself and the freedom of choice…Love is a very precious commodity , guard it well and only give to those who know how to appreciate it or u will be like throwing pearls before
swines…
Suzie says:
As for me, I will marry as an equal. I will not be subservient to a man but I will not be a door mat. I will wqlk together with him throughout the journey of life but I will not walk in front of him or behind him 
kekekekeke
Posted in on May 27th, 2007 by suzie | | 6 Comments
Tranny or gay..?
Laura speaks:
Being a gay is not as obvious as a tranny.Nobody knows u are gay unless u declare to the whole world or ur friends suspect u to be one.If u see a man holding hands with another and wears an ear ring,u would think he is gay.I dont know how far there is truth in that matter.
Being a tranny,u cannot hide ur identity .What’s the meaning of life if u cant be what u are and got to hide .That will make u very unhappy and inside u will find no peace.U want to be happy while others sad or u unhappy and others happy. It is ur choice.
A transexual man is like having a man and woman inside of him…Sometimes the man wins and sometimes the woman wins.. Some would say being like a woman in a man’s body or vice versa. Some have very strong woman’s feeling that they completely give up the man and changed their sex.While ,others may not have reached that stage and still physically remains a man but with developing breast.When a man grows old, he will develop breast as his testoterone would be decreasing and his estrogen increasing.The opposite happens in a woman.
Everyone of us male or female produces two hormones in our body. In man the body also produces the female hormones estrogen and if the body produces more estrogen , then u get the tranny type. Is this our fault that our male body produces more estrogen and make us more feminine? Do we have a psychological problem?
The answer is no.. We can deal with the situation but it is only some people who cannot accept such abberrations and thinks that we are abnormal and judging by their standards.Why God allow the birth of hermophrodites a baby with both male and female sexual organs. Whose fault is that? Why are there babies born without an ass…?U think those who want to play God can answer those questions ?
Suzie says:
Laura: i find that this blog is increasingly being lead into the gay direction. Not that it is right or wrong but I still feel just a little uneasy. Maybe it is my prejudices and I have to work at it. Can’t we all just be happy with what and who we are? I hope I am not hurting any body out there with this statement. I just feel a little confused here.
Posted in on May 27th, 2007 by suzie | | 13 Comments
It is not easy to be gay in Malaysia.
Michael speaks
I have to hide this fact from my parent,family,employers and all my friends.That is why I relocated to Kuala Lumpur.Here in Kuala Lumpur,most people don’t give a damn.
What I am not happy is the way society looks down on gay people.We are also people,we pay taxes and we don’t break laws like the criminals.Sociology-wise perhaps we are an aberration but why the raids on gay joints?Why always the media blitz on such raids.
Is it because sex sells?Is it because you think I am not gay so I am better than them?Is it because you think we will be condemned to burn in the fires of hell?Some times fingers are pointed at us.I would like to remind you the other four fingers are pointing back at you.
Or is it because you are afraid because we are different?You think just because we are gay,we undress every man and desire them?
Please just give us space to live out our lives.
Suzie says: To be honest, I am a little uneasy on this topic. But there is nothing wrong in this post or its contents.I know my uneasiness has no basis,I hope keke.However you are welcome to post on my blog on issues that you deem relevant to you, within reason. I apologize however that I have little knowledge at all on the issues you are referring to.
Posted in on May 27th, 2007 by suzie | | 7 Comments
How long would u like ur romance & courtship before marriage..?
Laura speaks:
Love is like a beautiful story that never ends…When love began , u are in ninth heaven and ur feet dont touch the ground.U are like in a perpetual state of euphoria and happiness but it is still not complete till u marry and then u can do everything u desire without any restrictions placed by society or social norms.
Some get married after a three months of wild romantic courtships.Some , more than two years or six or ten years.After such a long courtship, there is a danger of getting stale for u would have known each other’s secrets and nothing new to discover anymore and ur eyes begin to wander…
A short romance and courtship on the other hand has more ‘zest’ as interest is maintained and there could be more or better things to come.The only disadvantage is u may not really know a person in such a short period of time .
Some people cannot have a long courtship as they may not have the time . The woman could be five months pregnant or that they are near the cut off cliff hanger…keke!
Suzie says:
I sometimes steal a glance at certain couples and wonder how they ended up together.There is this hunky dentist who is madly in love with a very overweight teacher.He will hold her hands, whisper sweet nothings and look into her eyes when he thinks no one is looking.He is protecting her but I know she is as tough as steel.What a lucky woman.He wants to get married as soon as possible but the teacher wants to wait until the end of the year to coincide with her school holidays.
I wonder sometimes if there is a registry somewhere in heaven where in the book of life,is written so and so is going to marry so and so, no matter what!
Laura,I know you are going to ask me if I would like to have the dentist. Yes,I would kekekke if he were available.It’s absurd how some people have such charm over the female species.I think the word is ‘gorgeous’.
Posted in on May 26th, 2007 by suzie | | 13 Comments
Will u go to bars or pubs to pick up a man..?
Laura speaks:
I dont do that nor go to bars or pubs for the matter.I observed however many single girls go to those high class megamalls like Gurney Plaza in Pg and they sit at those tables in those fast food outlets holding a pack of cigarettes and just watching others or chatting with their girlfriends .The adventurous could sit next to them and can start a conversation..breaking the ice.
Going to bar is more for those who want the fun minus the responsibilities..keke! Those who go there just want a good time …no strings attached.Pubs are more respectable than bars. Men go there to have a beer with their friends after work to destress and watch the girls passing by..If u go there. u will sure get their attentions but most man are probably married .so u have to discern who are those who are married and those who are singles…
Karaokes are for group fun like ur colleagues who bring along their friends and u can get to know others ..great place to meet.
Comments are welcome
Caveat Emptor:This is just my opinions only..a kolot one..keke!
Dont waste ur time flaming me…I dont take craps from people..
Suzie says:
This reminds me of a joke during a night out with the girls.
An elderly man and a young girl were alone on a beach.
The man looked at her and drooled.”Please may I feel you,please?”
The woman looked at him with contempt,”Go away you dirty old man!”
The man,”RM500 for just a minute see see and touch touch”
The woman very angry now,”How dare you!”
The elderly man,”I will give you twenty thousand ringgit,fifty thousand ringgit, just say yes,please.There is nobody here.Nobody will ever know.A hundred thousand ringgit.”
The woman,”Alright,ok, it is just for a minute and nobody must ever know, u promise me.”
The man moans and sighs and moans in ecstasy as the minute countdown begins.The woman excuses herself that it is only for a minute.
Suddenly the man sighs as he remembers something,”Oh my God.Oh my God”
The lady: What you mean oh my God, oh my God?
The old man,”Oh my God, oh my God! I don’t have a hundred thousand ringgit.”
Posted in on May 26th, 2007 by suzie | | 11 Comments
“Ask yourself,are you looking for someone who is at least a little like your father or mother?â€
Laura speaks
I think many man dont go looking for their wife who resembles their mother. Their minds dont think like that. They may say I want a wife who will be as good as like his mom but then how would he know his g/f would be like his mom or not?They have not reached that stage yet..keek!
A man simply falls in love when he see a beautiful girl. He is attracted by sights and not by feelings like woman. If the girl responds to his overtures, then they are on…
A man have a simple one track mind, he sees what he likes and he wants to take her as his wife.If this woman reject’s him , then he would choose the 2nd best or 3rd best on his wife shopping list..keke!
So a woman who wants to get married must be very visual in society, be everywhere where there are plenty of man .U cannot stay at home for then ur chances become slimmer..
Woman need also to be beautifully attired all the time if possible .Some married woman made the fatal mistake of dressing sloppily at home after their marriage and their husbands eyes wandered and they wonder what has happened.
Be sexily dressed even at home because it will please ur husband unless ur husband is the conservative type where he does not want his wife to expose her assets to other man..keek!
Before he met u, he liked ur sexy way of dressing but after marriage , he becomes jealous when other man ogle his wife..keke!Men, ur wife says nothing but when u dress sloppily, u hardly look like a Brad Pitt!
Posted in on May 25th, 2007 by suzie | | 7 Comments
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