Will you hit a woman?
That will depends on the situation..If your life is in danger from a woman robber or from some mad woman who comes after you with a knife or weapon.
Will you be so dumb as to stand there and let the woman stick the knife into you? Surely not.
You will have to defend yourself if it is life and death situations. You dont care if it is a man or woman .
You would have to use sufficient force to repel the attack , to prevent youself from getting hurt.
In such a situation, you dont viewed her as a woman anymore.You dont care less about her sex.
What if you argued vehemently with your wife or g/f and she charged at you with a chopper?Will you defend yourself? Will you disarmed her and by doing , you may have to hit her physically…
When we are young, we can have great ideals . We can say we will not abuse anyone or hit any woman. But in real life, it is not so black and white.
We can judge and condemned men who hit their wives.But do you really understand why some men acted that way?
If you have not experienced under those same conditions , you will never understand why some men hit their wives..
Everyone of us has a tolerance level and breaking point. If we are provoked beyond this point, there is no saying what will happen to a man.
He can go ‘berserk or amok ‘and he cannot control his emotions and which can lead to violence.He is no more himself and the devil is in the control.
Women should be wise and know when to shut their mouth.When your husband is very agitated, stop, or you will make him jump over the cliff.
You cant win any arguments with him when his mind is in overdrive and it can only lead to violence against you.
He has no intentions of hitting you but you went beyond his tolerance level and he is no more in control of his emotions.
When your husband or b/f raises his voice in any tiff, it is a warning level….Dont go beyond the speed limit….change topics or keep quiet.
Be patient ,wait for a better time to talk over it again when he is in a happier mood
In the same way, women have been known to retaliate physically against their bf’s or boyfriends.
Some of us cannot control our anger or rage. When certain sensitive points are raised , we flew into a rage and hit out without thinking.After that we regret our actions, too late.
Will you hit your bf or gf or anybody close to you? How about your children?
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on June 28th, 2007 at 2:39 pm
Yeah , some women can really be violent. When they get really angry ,knives even can come out..keke! Dont mess with women.U may hit them but when you are sleeping , they can come and snip off your thingie or in some extreme cases when pushed to the limit even can kill the men in their sleep.
Sometimes due to stress from work or problems u can go into a rage and then you lose control of the situation and beat your wife, g/f ,/b/f or even your kids and then only regret you hit them with such great force.
Especially women, you lightly touched them , they will turned purple. Their skin is like tofu….and the children are very vulnerable . So never try to hit a child but only smack them on their backsides or their hands only or you may injure their internal organs.
on June 28th, 2007 at 2:47 pm
Hmm..I agreed. Sometimes I really can not stand and very angry until beat my children. Really sorry about that, but that time I have already out of control. I think men and women are same, both are human. they got emotion.
on June 28th, 2007 at 2:53 pm
Before I got married, I voved never to hit my wife even if provoked but I didnt understand what I was saying. It happened during a quarrel. It was like a calm sea before it exploded..She came to the working place to ‘cari pasai’ or looking for troubles. I nicely told her to go home first and then we will talked about it at home but she did not listen to me .I was quite patient and told her the second time. Still she acted like she was the boss and the last time , I told her to go home and wait for me. Instead of going home ,she challenged me . That was when my blood boiled, and I lost my cool…. I just didnt know what happened and just let go a punch with all my strength.Luckily for her another lady friend deflected that blow. But I did puched her with 30% force on her shoulder only and it turned big purple.
At that time she was very jealous of my female worker.She had feelings for me but I told her I only treated her like a sister since her mom babysit my daughter.My ex was an extremely jealous woman.Our relationship was already on the rocks…..
Thats why it is important to know the art of speaking or negotiations. When you feel the other person is angry , stop it , dont keep on fanning his anger and then he will explode…
Who is to be blame? You the instigator asked for it….A man will response with brute force when he is threatened. That is the only way he will deal with the situation.
on June 28th, 2007 at 3:11 pm
‘That is the only way he will deal with the situation.’
Should be rewritten as ,”That is the only way some men learn how to deal with this type of situations.
Man dont ‘bitch’ but will trade blows or fight when he is challenged.
on June 28th, 2007 at 3:14 pm
Hi Suzie,
Forgot to say ‘thanks’ to you for the nice endings…
“In the same way, women have been known to retaliate physically against their bf’s or boyfriends.
Will you hit your bf or gf or anybody close to you? How about your children? “
on June 28th, 2007 at 3:59 pm
Hi maria,
Thanks for your post. We are only human. We need to beware of ourself when we get into a rage and learn to control them. There is always a first time for everyone.We learn as we go through life.
We cannot be judging others from a moral high ground. It is easy to judge others as I said, those who judge doesnt know or have not been in such situations.. They are entittled to their opinions but I would not say more .. let them learn in life…
on June 28th, 2007 at 4:20 pm
Emotions and sex are two very dangerous elements.It is not easy to control them…Some people just dont know what they are talking about …or think they have the answer.It is more complex than they think.
on June 28th, 2007 at 8:45 pm
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on June 28th, 2007 at 9:07 pm
Wives are not enough
As an ex-nightclub hostess, I believe that I can speak on this subject
with authority. I certainly di-sagree with the authorities and members
of the public who scorn us as chattels. I do not believe this is a
degrading profession that should be rooted out before women can attain
equality with men, as the women’s groups claim.
Nonetheless, I agree that illegal prostitution using foreigners should
be stopped. But will that stop men from sowing their philandering seeds?
Local nightclub girls and prostitutes are easily available and we are
like the eager salesmen who are always trying to sell. Men can always
find money for sex and to us, sex should be properly arranged and paid
for, not stolen.
My years of experience have proven that the conventional idea of every
man only needing one woman in his married life is wrong. A woman alone
cannot fulfil her husband’s every need and desire, that is to be a
good mother, a good cook, a good conversationalist and a good
performer in bed.
Conjugal sex is a familial obligation. Its primary function is to
produce offspring and not for sexual contentment or eroticism. Men
somehow need to find other women to fulfil what they think their wives
are not capable of providing.
The sex appeal of younger and attractive women can be tempting, but
attractiveness is not necessarily the main reason of infidelity. We do
not perceive ourselves as compelling femme fatales and I have seen
many hostesses who are not attractive by both Asian and Western
standards. Prostitution exists simply because there’s a societal need
for it.
Momoko, Kuala Lumpur,
Do you agree with her ? Voice from the other side .
on June 28th, 2007 at 9:16 pm
What she said will resonate well with men..keke!But many wives will not agree with her perspective. How can she as a woman dont respect the sanctity of marriage. How can a man be joined to a harlot and at the same time be joined to the Lord.This is not possible. You dont drink from the same cup with the devil and then with the Lord.You can have either one or the other. She only provides the sexual services, and do not have all the other duties like a wife.How can she compare a wife to a harlot.If you men think this is feasible, then what if your wive also go visit the gigolo..Will you agree?
on June 28th, 2007 at 9:33 pm
USING PLASTIC CONTAINERS IN MICROWAVE
Subject: TIP FOR THE DAY - HEALTH HAZARD OF
USING PLASTIC CONTAINERS IN MICROWAVE
Dear All,
On Channel 2 (NZ) this morning, they had a Dr. Edward Fujimoto from
Castle Hospital on the program. He is the manager of the Wellness
Program of the hospital. He was talking about dioxins, and how bad
they are for us. He said that we should not be heating our food in the
microwave using plastic containers. This applies to foods that contain
fat. He said that the combination of fat, high heat and plastics,
releases dioxins into the food and ultimately into the cells of the
body. Dioxins are carcinogens (cancer causing agents), and highly
toxic to the cells of our bodies. Instead, he recommends that we
should be using glass, Corning Ware, or ceramic containers for heating
food. You get the same results without the dioxins. So such things as
TV dinners, instant saimin and soups, etc. should be removed from the
container, and heated in something else. Paper isn’t bad, but you
don’t know what is in the paper. It is just safer to use tempered
glass, Corning Ware, etc. He said we might remember when some of the
fast food restaurants moved away from the foam containers to paper.
The dioxin problem is one of the reasons. To add to this: Saran
(plastic) wrap, placed over foods as they are nuked, with the high
heat, actually drips poisonous toxins into the food. Instead, you
should use a paper towel.
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on July 23rd, 2007 at 9:59 pm
Ok, I just want to set straight that there are severe problems with the way these women you described are treating men. As rational and logical as you attempt to make it sound, reality bring home that they are still lowering their morals, and increasing their chances of failing relationships when they actually want one that lasts. Ask any man if they want a women like that, and you will likely find out those are exactly the kind of women who they don’t want anything to do with. No self-respecting man would want to spend any real quality time with women like these. You describe shallow, and very self-centered women who may only be said successful in a financial way. There is nothing to brag about when a girl cheats on someone. It isn’t what the other guys would want. Affairs are cute sounding, but often end in tragic results. Maybe one of the reasons men hit the women that have affairs. Not that it’s ok, but it is definitely provoked. I feel sorry for your friends for being so simple, shallow, and self-centered; but mostly I feel bad for the guys they use for money, or sex. Treat people like people, not methods to obtain your needs. Those are called leaches. A real life succubus. Not a good thing. People like them are avoided like the plague by men, hence the reason those women keep their deceitful plans from the men they take advantage of. If and when they are able to settle down with someone good, they will likely be forced to keep their methods to themselves for fear that a man knowing their true colors would never trust them. I am glad i have no friends like the ones you describe so harmlessly. I would be ashamed to condone their actions, and would not consider myself a good person if I did not voice my thoughts to show them how wrong they are to another human being.
The lack of some women’s self-respect just astonishes me.
it seems the reasoning you have is only to show that these women who you call successful are inf-fact very dependent. So much that they need different men to (MAKE) them feel young, (MAKE) them feel safe, or buy them material things, or treat them to expensive things.
I think you said it right in one of your sentences which describe your sympathy for these women and your close similarity with the flawed personality type you describe as a trend that in study ends up not the majority after all.
You Said;
“It’s tough enough trying to solve my own problems and I certainly don’t want to help solve them for anyone else.”
Case rested.
- Bryan