A baby’s hug

We were the only family with children in the restaurant.I sat Erik in a high chair and noticed everyone was quietly eating and talking.Suddenly, Erik squealed with glee and said, “Hi there.”
He pounded his fat baby hands on the high chair tray. His eyes were crinkled in laughter and his mouth was bared in a toothless grin as he wriggled and giggled with merriment.

I looked around and saw the source of his merriment.It was a man whose pants were baggy with a zipper at half-mast and his toes poked out of would-be shoes. His shirt was dirty and his hair was uncombed and unwashed. His whiskers were too short to be called a beard and his nose was so varicose it looked like a road map. We were too far from him to smell, but I was sure he smelled.

His hands waved and flapped on loose wrists. “Hi ya, buster,” the man said to Erik. My husband and I exchanged looks,“What do we do?” Erik continued to laugh and answer, “Hi, hi there.”

Everyone in the restaurant noticed and looked at us and then at the man. The old geezer was creating a nuisance with my beautiful baby. Our meal came and the man began shouting from
across the room, “Do ya patty cake? Do you know peek-a-boo? Hey, look, he knows peek-a-boo.”

Nobody thought the old man was cute. He was obviously drunk. My husband and I were embarrassed. We ate in silence, all except for Erik, who was running through his repertoire for the admiring skid row bum, who in turn, reciprocated with his cute comments.We finally got through the meal and headed for the door.My husband went to pay the check and told me to meet him in the parking lot.

The old man sat poised between me and the door.“Lord, just let me out of here before he speaks to me or Erik,”I prayed.As I drew closer to the man, I turned my back trying to sidestep
him and avoid any air he might be breathing. As I did, Erik leaned over my arm, reaching with both arms in a baby’s “pick-me-up” position.

Before I could stop him, Erik had propelled himself from my arms to the man’s. Suddenly a very old smelly man and a very young baby consummated their love relationship. Erik in an act of
total trust, love, and submission laid his tiny head upon the man’s ragged shoulder.

The man’s eyes closed, and I saw tears hover beneath his lashes. His aged hands full of grime, pain, and hard labor, cradled my baby’s bottom and stroked his back. No two beings have ever
loved so deeply for so short a time. I stood awestruck. The old man rocked and cradled Erik in his arms and his eyes opened and set squarely on mine. He said in a firm commanding
voice,“You take care of this baby.”

Somehow I managed, “I will,” from a throat that contained a stone. He pried Erik from his chest unwillingly, longingly,as though he were in pain.I received my baby, and the man said, “God bless you, ma’am,you’ve given me my Christmas gift.”I said nothing more than a muttered thanks.With Erik in my arms, I ran for the car.

My husband was wondering why I was crying and holding Erik so tightly and why I was saying, “My God, my God, forgive me.”

I had just witnessed Christ’s love shown through the innocence of a tiny child who saw no sin, who made no judgment; a child who saw a soul, and a mother who saw a suit of clothes.I was a Christian who was blind, holding a child who was not.I felt it was God asking, “Are you willing to share your son for a moment?” when He shared His for all eternity.

The ragged old man unwittingly, had reminded me, “To enter the
Kingdom of God, we must become as little children.”

Author Unknown

I do not know who is the author since I copied it from a forum but there is another version here….

http://www.trumbore.org/sam/sermons/s6c4.htm

and

http://authorsden.com/visit/viewPoetry.asp?id=147487&AuthorID=16611

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  1. laura said,

    on June 30th, 2007 at 11:13 am

    Today’s Verse from the New Living Translation

    Charm is deceptive, and beauty does not last; but a woman who fears the Lord will be greatly praised.

    Proverbs 31:30
    view in context

    Encouragement for Today

    This verse is so contrary to what the world tells us, isn’t it? The world tells us that being beautiful, rich, or charming is what brings happiness and will make people love us. Are you afraid that no one would love you if they knew the hidden things about you? No matter what you have or haven’t done in life, and no matter what you look like, God’s love never changes. His love is stronger and deeper than we can ever imagine. Take off the façade and run to God. Let his love cover all your imperfections

    From

    Today Christian women

    Laura speaks :-

    We all want to be rich , charming and beautiful.
    When we are rich and beautiful , we wamt more riches and more beauty….and it will never end.
    Rich does not mean that you have lots of money . You can be rich in other things ,like knowledge, a happy family, a contented life or a good health. If you are rich financially but poor in health , whats the use?
    What’s good about beauty if you have an evil and black heart? A plain girl with a clean and good heart is more beautiful than a women who only looks beautiful on the outside. There is no joy in her beauty..

  2. laura said,

    on June 30th, 2007 at 2:23 pm

    Today’s Verse from the New Living Translation

    “Dear woman,” Jesus said to her, “your faith is great. Your request is granted.” And her daughter was instantly healed.

    Matthew 15:28
    view in context

    Encouragement for Today

    Perhaps you are going through a time where you can’t even see two steps in front of you—you can’t even begin to see the future God has in store for you. Will you start putting faith in yourself and start working harder, or will you run to God, fall into his arms, rest in his presence, and allow him to guide your life? Will you be as shamelessly persistent as the woman in this verse? Have faith—God has a purpose for your life. He will answer your prayers.

    From
    Today Christian Women .com

    Laura speaks:-

    Nobody knows what tomorrow will bring or next week or next month. Have faith and trust in God..Enjoy what today brings….

  3. Laura said,

    on June 30th, 2007 at 5:30 pm

    Why Women Cry Message List
    Reply | Forward | Delete Message #4426 of 6672
    Why Women Cry ?

    A little boy asked his mother, “Why are you crying?” “Because I’m a woman,” she
    told him. “I don’t understand,” he said. His Mom just hugged him and said, “And
    you never will.”

    Later the little boy asked his father, “Why does mother seem to cry for no
    reason?” “All women cry for no reason,” was all his dad could say.

    The little boy grew up and became a man, still wondering why women cry. Finally
    he put in a call to God. When God got on the phone, he asked, “God, why do women
    cry so easily?”

    God said: “When I made the woman she had to be special. I made her shoulders
    strong enough to carry the weight of the world, yet gentle enough to give
    comfort.

    I gave her an inner strength to endure childbirth and the rejection that many
    times comes from her children.

    I gave her a hardness that allows her to keep going when everyone else gives up,
    and take care of her family through sickness and fatigue without complaining.

    I gave her the sensitivity to love her children under any and all circumstances,
    even when her child has hurt her very badly.

    I gave her strength to carry her husband through his faults and fashioned her
    from his rib to protect his heart.

    I gave her wisdom to know that a good husband never hurts his wife, but
    sometimes tests her strengths and her resolve to stand beside him
    unfalteringly.

    And finally, I gave her a tear to shed. This is hers exclusively to use whenever
    it is needed.”

    “You see my son,” said God, “the beauty of a woman is not in the clothes she
    wears, the figure that she carries, or the way she combs her hair. The beauty of
    a woman must be seen in her eyes, because that is the doorway to her heart - the
    place where love resides.”

    Send this to all the beautiful women you know today in celebration of Women’s
    History Month. If you do, something good will happen - You will boost another
    woman’s self-esteem!

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  4. Laura said,

    on June 30th, 2007 at 5:37 pm

    English -The malaysian way..hehe!

    The English did invent the English Language, but they cannot
    use it economically when communicating their intentions.
    Compare these phrases that Malaysians and Britons use to say the same
    thing: So, why make things so confusing and waste of money when you
    are on a long distance call.
    Make it snappy.

    WHEN GIVING A CUSTOMER BAD NEWS
    Britons: I’m sorry, Sir, but we don’t seem to have the sweater
    you want in your size, but if you give me a moment, I can call the
    other outlets for you.
    Malaysians: No Stock.

    RETURNING A CALL
    Britons: Hello, this is John Smith. Did anyone page for me a
    few moments ago?
    Malaysians: Hallo, who page?

    ASKING SOMEONE TO MAKE WAY.
    Britons: Excuse me, I’d like to get by. Would you please make
    way?
    Malaysians: S-kews (excuse)

    WHEN SOMEONE OFFERS TO PAY
    Britons: Hey, put your wallet away, this drink is on me.
    Malaysians: No-need, lah. (Lah - has got no meanings except to make
    it sound better)

    WHEN ASKING FOR PERMISSION
    Britons: Excuse me, but do you think it would be possible for
    me to enter through this door?
    Malaysians: (while pointing at door) Can or not?

    WHEN ENTERTAINING
    Britons: Please make yourself right at home.
    Malaysians: Don’t be shy, lah!

    WHEN DOUBTING SOMEONE
    Britons: I don’t recall you giving me the money.
    Malaysians: Where got?

    WHEN DECLINING AN OFFER
    Britons: I’d prefer not to do that, if you don’t mind.
    Malaysians: Doe-waaaan! (Dont want,)

    WHEN DECIDING ON A PLAN OF ACTION
    Britons: What do you propose we do now that the movie’s sold
    out and all the restaurants are closed?
    Malaysians: So how?

    IN DISAGREEING ON A TOPIC OF DISCUSSION
    Britons: Err. Tom, I have to stop you there. I understand
    where you’re coming from, but I really have to disagree with what
    you said about issue.
    Malaysians: You mad, ah?

    WHEN ASKING SOMEONE TO LOWER THEIR VOICE.
    Britons: Excuse me, but could you please lower your voice, I’m
    try ing to concentrate over here.
    Malaysians: Shaddap lah! (Shut up)

    WHEN ASKING SOMEONE IF HE/SHE KNOWS YOU.
    Britons: Excuse me, but I noticed you staring at me for some
    time. Do I know you?
    Malaysians: See what, see what?

    WHEN ASSESSING A TIGHT SITUATION.
    Britons: We seem to be in a bit of a predicament at the
    moment.
    Malaysians: Die-lah!!

    Anonymous

  5. Laura said,

    on June 30th, 2007 at 7:10 pm

    Guys are hard to understand…hehe!

    Men Are Hard To Please

    The problems with GUYS:

    If u TREAT him nicely, he says u are IN LOVE with him;
    If u Don’t, he says u are PROUD.
    If u DRESS Nicely, he says u are trying to LURE him;
    If u Don’t, he says u are from KAMPUNG.(Hillbillies)
    If u ARGUE with him, he says u are STUBBORN;
    If u keep QUIET, he says u have no BRAINS.
    If u are SMARTER than him, he’ll lose FACE;
    If he’s Smarter than u, he is GREAT.
    If u don’t Love him, he tries to POSSESS u;
    If u Love him, he will try to LEAVE u.(very true huh?)
    If u don’t make love with him., he says u don’t Love him;
    If u do!! he says u are CHEAP.
    If u tell him your PROBLEM, he says u are TROUBLESOME;
    If u don’t, he says that u don’t TRUST him.
    If u SCOLD him, u are like a NANNY to him;
    If he SCOLDS u, it is because he CARES for u.
    If u BREAK your PROMISE, u Cannot be TRUSTED;
    If he BREAKS his, he is FORCED to do so.
    If u SMOKE, u are BAD girl;
    If he SMOKES, he is a GENTLEMEN.
    If u do WELL in your exams, he says it’s LUCK;
    If he does WELL, it’s BRAINS.
    If u HURT him, u are CRUEL;
    If he HURTS u, u are too SENSITIVE!!
    & sooo hard to please!!!!!
    If u send this to guys, they will swear that it’s not true…….
    but if u don’t, they say u are selfish…..

    Anonymous..

    MEN BLAH! BLAH! BLAH!

  6. Laura said,

    on June 30th, 2007 at 7:14 pm

    That is his problem…

    Tom had been a compulsive worrier for years until he found a way to
    overcome this problem. His friends noticed the dramatic change. “You
    don’t seem to be worried about anything anymore.”

    “I hired a professional worrier for $1000.00 a week, “Tom
    replied. “I haven’t had a single qualm since.”

    “A thousand a week!” said Doug. “How are you going to pay him?”

    “That’s his problem.”

    Anonymous.

  7. Laura said,

    on June 30th, 2007 at 7:47 pm

    IDIOTS IN SERVICE:

    This week my phone went dead, and I had to contact the
    telephone
    repair people. They promised to be out between 8:00 a.m. and
    7:00
    p.m. When I asked if they could give me a smaller time window,
    the
    pleasant gentleman asked, “Would you like us to call you before
    we
    come?” I replied that I didn’t see how he would be able to do
    that,
    since our phones weren’t working. He also requested that we
    report
    future outages by email. I asked him, “Does YOUR email work
    without a
    telephone line?”

    IDIOTS AT WORK:
    I was signing the receipt for my credit card purchase when
    the
    clerk noticed I had never signed my name on the back of the
    credit
    card. She informed me that she could not complete the
    transaction
    unless the card was signed. When I asked why, she explained that
    it
    was necessary to compare the signature I had just signed on the
    receipt. So I signed the credit card in front of her. She
    carefully
    compared the signature to the one I had just signed on the
    receipt.
    As luck would have it, they matched.

    IDIOTS IN THE NEIGHBORHOOD:
    I live in a semi-rural area. We recently had a new neighbor
    call the
    local township administrative office to request the removal of
    the Deer
    Crossing sign on our road. The reason? Too many deer were being
    hit
    by cars, and he didn’t want them to cross there anymore.

    IDIOTS IN FOOD SERVICE:
    My daughter went to a local Taco Bell and ordered a taco. She
    asked the person behind the counter for “minimal lettuce.” He
    said
    he was sorry, but they only had iceberg.

    IDIOT SIGHTING:
    I was at the airport, checking in at the gate when an
    airport
    employee asked, “Has anyone put anything in your baggage
    without
    your knowledge?” To which I replied, “If it was without my
    knowledge,
    how would I know? ” He smiled knowingly and nodded, “That’s
    why
    we ask.”

    IDIOT SIGHTING:
    At a good-bye luncheon for an old and dear coworker who was
    leaving the company due to “downsizing,” our manager commented
    cheerfully, “This is fun. We should do this more often.” Not a
    word
    was spoken. We all just looked at each other with that deer-in-
    the-
    headlights stare.

    IDIOT SIGHTING:
    I work with an individual who plugged her power strip back
    into
    itself and for the life of her couldn’t understand why her
    system
    would not turn on.

    IDIOT SIGHTING:
    When my husband and I arrived at an automobile dealership
    to
    pick up our car we were told the keys had been locked in it.
    We
    went to the service department and found a mechanic working
    feverishly to unlock the driver’s side door. As I watched
    from the
    passenger side, I instinctively tried the door handle and
    discovered
    that it was unlocked. “Hey,” I announced to the
    technician, “It’s
    open!” To which he replied, “I know. I already got that side.”
    NOW, DON’T WE ALL FEEL BETTER? …………

    Anonymous

  8. Laura said,

    on June 30th, 2007 at 8:35 pm

    CHEWING GUM

    Do you know the reason why Singapore government restricts the
    citizens not to chew gum? Here is the story….

    One day Lee Kwan Yew went to Thailand and had lobster at the dinner
    with the Thai King. After Lee finished, he asked the King.
    Lee : Your Highness, what can you do with this lobster skin?
    King : We cannot do anything with it, we just throw away.
    Lee : Oh, no. In our country, we send it to the factory and produce
    some prawn cracker.

    Then Lee had an orange. After he finished, he asked the King.
    Lee : What can you do with the orange skin?
    King : We cannot do anything. We just throw away.
    Lee : Oh, no. In Singapore, we send it to the factory and produce
    some orange jam.

    Then Lee asked for some chewing gum. After he finished, he put on the
    plate and asked the King.
    Lee : What can you do with the chewing gum?
    King : Oh, no. We just throw it away.
    Lee : In Singapore, we send it to the factory and produce condoms
    send it to Thailand.

    Lee said good-bye to the King and the King asked Lee.
    King : What can you do with the condom when you finish using it?
    Lee : We cannot do anything. We throw it away.
    King : In Thailand when we finish using the condom, we send it to the
    factory to produce chewing gum and send it back to Singapore!!!

    Anonymous

  9. Laura said,

    on June 30th, 2007 at 8:42 pm

    Most Important part of the body

    My mother used to ask me what is the most important
    part of the body. Through the years I would take a
    guess at what I thought was the correct answer. When
    I was younger, I thought sound was very important to
    us as humans, so I said, “My ears, Mommy.”
    She said, “No. Many people are deaf. But you keep
    thinking about it and I will ask you again soon.”

    Several years passed before she asked me again.
    Since making my first attempt, I had contemplated
    the correct answer. So this time I told her,
    “Mommy, sight is very important to everybody, so
    it must be our eyes.”
    She looked at me and told me, “You are learning fast,
    but the answer is not correct because there are many
    people who are blind.”

    Stumped again, I continued my quest for knowledge
    and over the years, Mother asked me a couple more times and always
    her answer was, “No. But you are
    getting smarter every year, my child.”

    Then last year, my grandpa died. Everybody was
    hurt. Everybody was crying. Even my father cried. I remember that
    especially because it was only the
    second time I saw him cry. My Mom looked at me when it was our turn
    to say our final good-bye to
    Grandpa. She asked me, “Do you know the most important body part yet,
    my dear?”

    I was shocked when she asked me this now. I always
    thought this was a game between her and me. She saw the confusion on
    my face and told me, “This
    question is very important. It shows that you have really lived in
    your life. For every body part you gave
    me in the past, I have told you were wrong and I have given you an
    example why. But today is the day
    you need to learn this important lesson.”

    She looked down at me as only a mother can. I saw
    her eyes well up with tears. She said, “My dear, the most important
    body part is your shoulder.”

    I asked, “Is it because it holds up my head?”
    She replied, “No, it is because it can hold the head of
    a friend or a loved one when they cry. Everybody needs
    a shoulder to cry on sometime in life, my dear. I only
    hope that you have enough love and friends that you will
    always have a shoulder to cry on when you need it.”

    Then and there I knew the most important body part
    is not a selfish one. It is sympathetic to the pain of others.

    People will forget what you said…
    People will forget what you did….
    But people will NEVER forget how you made them feel.

    Good friends are like stars…You don’t always see them,
    but you always know they’re there.

    Anonymous

  10. Laura said,

    on June 30th, 2007 at 8:52 pm

    Job Applications for Mums

    If you’re a mom you’ll enjoy
    and relate to this. If you’re
    not, pass this along to your
    mom, your wife (if
    applicable) or just enjoy it
    for its truthfulness!

    POSITION: Mom

    JOB DESCRIPTION: Long term
    team players needed for
    challenging permanent work in
    an often chaotic
    environment. Candidates must
    possess excellent
    communication and
    organizational skills and be
    willing to work various
    hours, which will include
    evenings and weekends and
    frequent 24 hour shifts on
    call. Some overnight travel
    required, including trips to
    primitive camping sites on
    rainy weekends and endless
    sports tournaments in faraway
    cities. Travel expenses not
    reimbursed. Extensive
    courier duties also required.

    RESPONSIBILITIES: This is
    for the rest of your life.
    Must be willing to be hated
    at least temporarily, until
    someone needs $5 to go
    skating. Must be willing to
    bite tongue repeatedly.
    Also, must possess the
    physical stamina of a pack
    mule and be able to go from
    zero to 60 mph in three
    seconds flat, in case this
    time, the screams from the
    backyard are not someone
    just crying wolf. Must be
    willing to face stimulating
    technical challenges, such as
    small gadget repair,
    mysteriously sluggish toilets
    and stuck zippers. Must
    screen phone calls, maintain
    calendars and coordinate
    production of multiple
    homework projects. Must
    have ability to plan and
    organize social gatherings
    for clients of all ages and
    mental outlooks. Must be
    willing to be indispensable
    one minute, an embarrassment
    the next. Must handle
    assembly and product safety
    testing of a half million
    cheap, plastic toys and
    battery operated devices.
    Must always hope for the
    best but be prepared for the
    worst. Must assume final,
    complete accountability for
    the quality of the end
    product. Responsibilities
    also include floor
    maintenance and janitorial
    work throughout the facility.

    POSSIBILITY FOR ADVANCEMENT
    AND PROMOTION: Virtually
    none. Your job is to remain
    in the same position for
    years, without complaining,
    constantly retraining and
    updating your skills, so that
    those in your charge can
    ultimately surpass you.

    PREVIOUS EXPERIENCE: None
    required, unfortunately. On-
    the-job training offered on a
    continually exhausting basis.

    WAGES AND COMPENSATION: You
    pay them, offering frequent
    raises and bonuses. A balloon
    payment is due when they turn
    18 because of the assumption
    that college will help them
    become financially
    independent. When you die,
    you give them whatever is
    left. The oddest thing about
    this reverse-salary scheme
    is that you actually enjoy
    it and wish you could only
    do more.

    BENEFITS: While no health or
    dental insurance, no
    pension, no tuition
    reimbursement, no paid
    holidays and no stock
    options are offered, job
    supplies limitless
    opportunities for personal
    growth and free hugs for
    life if you play your cards
    right.

    Anonymous

  11. Laura said,

    on June 30th, 2007 at 8:59 pm

    Come watch this beautiful video ..God speaking to you…

    http://www.homewithgod.com/Cards/fathersloveletter.shtml

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