DO YOU TRYST ONLINE OR HAVE INTERNET SEX ?
DO YOU TRYST ONLINE OR HAVE INTERNET SEX ?
Have you experienced online tryst or internet sex? Do you think it is morally right or wrong or good or bad ? It will depends on who you are and what you stand for. Everyone will have their own opinions . It is for each of us to decide whether you can accept or cannot accept this practice.It is wrong if you think it is wrong.
I know of one person who had internet sex with a married woman in another country down South and later she came to visit him with her family. It was like normal , for they each realized that what happened online is only virtual and they behaved like normal friends when they met in real life.
Some have the habit of going online to chat up with the opposite sex with a view of having a real fling while some will be perfectly satisfied to keep things as they are.
If you go into internet chat rooms , you may meet some ‘ horny and kinky ‘ people who may indulge in this kind of activities and they may obtain some sort of gratifications from having a virtual sex roam with you.. You may asked where is the fun when you cannot physically touched and enjoyed each other. It may not be as satisfying as the real one, but it does excite and stimulate the mind. Some perverts as some may called them can feel high over the virtual sex stimulations.
If you are single and unattached, I think this is just a harmless activity if you only confined it in the internet . It could just be like a dream or just using your imaginations with another person who share your ‘kinky’ activities..
If you are a religious person , it is morally wrong because you committed adultery or fornications in your heart .If your conscience tells you that it is wrong, you should not do it.
If you are married, it is morally wrong because you committed virtual adultery and you spend too much time on your pc and neglecting your spouse or g/f or b/f and your addictive and compulsive behaviour may affect your relationship with them..
In the Singapore High Court, a man lose custody of his children to his wife because of this online habit.According to the highly learned judge ,Choo Han Teck, he is less than exemplany role model for his children. The expatriate has a master’s degree and a good job as a director of a group of companies. The reason: His secret hobby of trawling the Internet to check out potential female partners as ‘occasional lovers’ or to have ‘discreet relations’ with them.He was found to have engaged in internet sex chat even before his wife left him.
Do you agree with the learned judge? In my opinion , this online habit should not be taken into considerations when deciding who should have custody of the children.
What he does as a man is not in the judges scope. And that it was not the court’s business to express approval, or even attempt to regulate what an adult could or should do with his private romantic life.
What about this woman who surely may not be squeaky clean? She could be drifting from one love affair to another as most woman do after they are separated from their husbands.
The man is doing online to search for a partner. Are these two not doing the same thing, looking for a partner ?Who is to decide that the man is doing it for fun while the woman is serious ?Isnt this a paradox?
Who is the more exemplary is better left to God to decide. He should decide who will make a better parent and whose environment is better suited for the children to grow up in and who the children is closer too. Even when his eldest son decided to go with the father. His opinions was not counted as he was considered immmature and too young to decide.
This is a problem when a judge has to decide who should have custody of the children. Since the children are closed to both parents, both of them should be matured and put their differences aside and plan for the wellbeing of the children. Different judges ,may have different outcomes.Whatever court decisions will always be unfair to one or the other.
They should not be selfish but to think of the children first. I am sure they could come to an arrangements where they can both decide to have dual or mutual custody of the children. What made them so hard hearted that they must take the children away from each other or the exclusion of one from the other?
Ultimately ,in the end when the children grow up, the children will decide where they want to go and we must respect their wishes.
Whats your views?
Posted in on July 30th, 2007 by suzie | |
on July 30th, 2007 at 7:21 pm
Parenting Tip of the Day
Be Careful What You Say Around Your Preschooler
A mother tells the story of talking on the phone
with a friend. Her son was playing nearby within
listening distance of the conversation. During the
course of the conversation the mother was telling
her friend something her son had done that
greatly frustrated her. Jokingly she said, “I was ready
to kill him.” After the phone conversation ended
the mother found her son on his bed sobbing. When
she asked what was wrong her son responded, “Did
you really want to kill me?” Good Parenting
Action Points: 1) Remind yourself often — your
preschooler is not a miniature adult. A preschooler
doesn’t think like you or understand things the way
you do. 2) Young children tend to take things
very literally. Understanding metaphorical
language is still years away for them. Be careful of
words you use in jest that might be frightening if
taken literally by your child.
on July 30th, 2007 at 7:37 pm
Killing A Window
Dont get the wrong message.. It is not killing a ‘widow ‘..keke!
Have you ever had one of those windows that
misbehave? By “misbehave,” I mean you cannot get it to
Maximize or Minimize. Sometimes Web programmers want
to splash a screen onto your PC with no controls
and will use this technique so that you can’t get
their junk off your screen. For some bizarre reason
they think this is a good thing. Anyway, you do
have some control with the standard Windows window
control options. Click anywhere in the misbehaving
window and hit Alt + Spacebar. On the resulting
menu, you can choose Close and kill the window.
- Michael Vincent
on July 30th, 2007 at 7:49 pm
THE COOK’S THESAURUS..
The online encyclopedia for all your dont know what that word means or whats that ?
http://www.foodsubs.com/
on July 30th, 2007 at 7:52 pm
When Your Older Teen Makes Poor Choices
A major responsibility of good parenting is to
prepare our children to be responsible adults. And
being a responsible adult includes making good
decisions. As children reach the mid-teen years, we realize
as parents that they will make more and more of
their own decisions. Sometimes these decisions seem
like poor ones to us, but we cannot stop
them. When our children make bad decisions, the normal
reaction for parents is to say, “Where did I go
wrong?” Maybe the better question is, “What can I do
to help my child deal with the consequences of
this bad decision?” Good Parenting Action
Points: 1) Don’t spend valuable time mentally and
emotionally beating yourself up when your teen makes a
bad decision. What’s done is done. 2)
Instead of dealing with what’s past, focus your energy on
the present. What does your child need most from you
now?
Author unknown
on July 30th, 2007 at 8:03 pm
God’s Days
There are two days in the week upon which and
about which I never worry — two carefree days
kept sacredly free from fear and apprehension. One of
these days is Yesterday. Yesterday, with its
cares and frets and pains and aches, all its
faults, its mistakes and blunders, has passed forever
beyond my recall. It was mine; it is God’s.
The other day that I do not worry about is
Tomorrow. Tomorrow, with all its possible adversities,
its burdens, its perils, its large promise and
performance, its failures and mistakes, is as far beyond my
mastery as its dead sister, Yesterday. Tomorrow is
God’s day; it will be mine. There is left,
then, for myself but one day in the week - Today. Any
man can fight the battles of today. Any woman
can carry the burdens of just one day; any man
can resist the temptation of today. It is only when
we willfully add the burdens of these two awful
eternities - Yesterday and Tomorrow - such burdens as
only the Mighty God can sustain - that we break down.
It isn’t the experience of Today that drives men
mad. It is the remorse of what happened Yesterday
and fear of what Tomorrow might bring. These are
God’s Days … Leave them to Him. — Robert J.
Burdette ***
on July 31st, 2007 at 12:11 am
how come all the comments are from …. you? hmmmm….
on July 31st, 2007 at 9:17 am
Hi Zewt,
Thanks for your post and your presence in this blog.It ’s an honour to meet you. I can only post in the comments section..Though Suzie has elevated me as co host of this blog, I dont have the liberty to log into this blog to post in the main page.She will vet and pick whichever she likes and then post in the main page.This is the arrangement here.
Hence all those comments are all mine. As to why there are no others or the lack of it..it is the usual reasons why others dont post their comments.
If you find this unusual, there is no ultra motive, it is the way it works here in this blog.
Some blog owners may fake some comments in their blog. I am Laura and not Suzie and Suzie will post under her name while I will post under mine.
I am the babbling brook flowing into the Dead Sea…in Suzie’s words..keke!
on July 31st, 2007 at 9:43 am
The comments section in this blog is my only playground..others are welcome to come and play here.I dont like or too lazy to start my own blog. I just want to write and nothing more. Everything about blogs, I will leave it to Suzie.
I am just a homeless guy and Suzie is kind enough to allow me to put my thoughts in here.
Many thanks to Suzie for this priviledge.