Modern Day Marriage For Women Sucks!
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If you are still single , take heart because there are more women remaining single ’s than married.Eventually ,hopefully many will marry in the end.
If you cannot find the right mate , no problems .You dont have to feel pressured to be married. If you are happy , stay that way.
Why modern marriage for women sucks?
During your mother’s generations , they only had to deal with child care and housework in exchange for financial security and a roof over their heads.
In this modern era, a women has to work as hard or harder than a man and then still have to take care of the child and houseworks.
It is even worse when she has to foot the bills while the men just earn for their own keeps.Despite all her sacrifice and contributions, she gets plenty of poisonous vibes from the men and no appreciations or love or a helping hand.
Thats what you get when you kiss and marry a jerk…..
Every women do want to get married and everyone of us need love and companionship.God made us that way. I am not trying to discourage marriage , maybe give some cheer to those who are still looking for their mates.
A women is more discerning and critical when deciding a life partner.It is inbued in her system .Dont marry the first ‘jerk’ that comes along and you will regret later.
According to the New York Yimes , 51% of the women are living without a spouse. This percentage is sure to go higher as many women may find marriage or the men not measuring up to their expectations.
When the women were not working , they did not have very high expectations but when they entered the work force, they became over critical and had higher expectations of men.
More women are marrying later or living with unmarried partners or marriage is elusive to them. At the other end, women are living longer as widows and not remarrying.They enjoy the freedom and rediscover who they are.
Those who are married , there are many who stays single with the kids because the men are working oversea’s or out stations or in the military or in the instituitions.
These are the absent spouse. They are being married and tied down but not enjoying the fruits of a real marriage of togetherness.
Women had to work two shifts. They also work and then had to take care of the kids and and the houseworks .Even if the men helped them , they still have to do the major part of the jobs.
If they marry the men about their age, there is a maturity gap.Those men are inexperienced and less matured and they do not know how to treat their wives.
They have this ‘Peter Pan syndrome.’ (http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Peter_Pan_syndrome ) They are forever kids and dont grow up and are narcissistic .They love themselves more than they love others. Some of them still need their mothers..LOL!
Today , women dont have to depend anymore on the men like their mother’s generations.The men’s traditional contributions in marriage becomes irrelevant as the women also take home a cheque and sometimes their cheques are bigger than the men’s. The men are not needed and becomes unwanted..LOL!
The new women has arrived but the instituitions of marriage and the men are still the same.They have not changed . If they want to marry , they should not go shopping for the perfect mate.It is a rare commodity …LOL!
Will you marry for love or money?
This is just the generalization of my opinions only.
Posted by Laura
credit and thanks to
What is Peter Pan Syndrome?
http://www.evanbailyn.com/index.php/article/what_is_peter_pan_syndrome/
http://www.glennsacks.com/census_shows_majority.htm
http://www.nytimes.com/2007/01/16/us/16census.html?ex=1326603600&en=8b61820a6c4712e5&ei=5090&partner=rssuserland&emc=rss
Posted in on September 30th, 2007 by suzie | | 0 Comments
Dates for seniors at a click of the mouse
Life doesn’t stop when we reach senior status. Neither does the dating scene. When we reach the stage where we are seniors, our lives are more stable emotionally and financially and yet this is the time seniors find most difficult to get a date. Unlike others, seniors are more discerning when it comes to dating. senior dating can be fun too.
We have seen the world. Who would like to go on a date and let it fall flat.senior singles will find datingforseniors.com ideal. Here are many profiles deemed eligible for senior singles. Browse through the profiles and find one who is just right for you. To be registered on the site also gives the chance for the right person to find you.
Just go through the many profiles. Take the initiative. There is bound to be one that is just right. There are so many features on the site. These features make it very user friendly.
Posted in on September 28th, 2007 by suzie | | 2 Comments
What If Women Ruled The World ?
Women maybe the presidents or prime ministers in their respective countries but it is still a man’s world out there.
Women are now competing with men in the universities, work and in every men’s sphere. There are now more women in the universities than men and soon they will be a majority in every area.
There will come a time when they will be a majority and powerful force to be reckoned with and will decide the destiny of men in the future.
Imagine living in some new land where the women rules and the men obeys.Women decide everything and they are the law.
In China, the authorities there have set up a women’s town ‘ ,the 2.3-square-km Longshuihu village in the Shuangqiao district of Chongqing municipality.
(http://www.reuters.com/article/wtMostRead/idUSKUA64707120070426 )
http://www.thesun.co.uk/article/0,,2007160590,00.html
It is a novel concept and a tourist attractions. It is an experiment to see how the world becomes when women rules and whether they can rule without the men’s help.
It is like the Amazon women’s world where there were only women and no men. I dont know what happened to those men,kept like cattle and for stud purpose only..
The London police is recruiting women police officers because they found that a women and her voice has a calming effects on those bad guys..
It’s a guy thing, they can talk better with a women .Whereas when confronted with a man , they are confrontational.That is the power of women..LOL!
If you are a women, what would you like to see a change in the present world that you live in? It would reflect the fairness of both sexes.
Your views appreciated.
Posted by Laura
credit and thanks to
http://haddadusa.com/Jokes/General/Women_Rule/
http://www.dailymail.co.uk/pages/live/femail/article.html?in_article_id=484370&in_page_id=1879
suggested readings
http://news.bbc.co.uk/2/hi/programmes/if/3487260.stm
http://www.ksg.harvard.edu/citizen/Dec20/shar1220.html
http://www.thesun.co.uk/article/0,,2007160590,00.html
Posted in on September 28th, 2007 by suzie | | 0 Comments
The World’s Tiniest baby !
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Kimberley Mueller was born 15 weeks prematurely and her survival chances were 1000 to 1.
She was born in Hannover Germany weighing 10 oz , the size of a mobile phone.
It is a miracle and congrats to her parents.
Posted by Laura
credit and thanks to
http://www.dailymail.co.uk/pages/live/articles/news/worldnews.html?in_article_id=484264&in_page_id=1811
Posted in on September 28th, 2007 by suzie | | 0 Comments
Women More Unhappier Than Men - Yes/No ?
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Is it true that women are more unhappier than men?
It is not easy to satisfy a women ,for they have high ideals,a perfectionist ,many insatiable wants and needs, more critical ,more competitive and more ambitious.Thats why more girls are going to the universities than boys.
To buy one pair of shoe/dress/handbag, a woman may walk the whole shopping mall or all the shopping malls in the town before she is satisfied with one that she likes .
After much deliberations , she may not buy it at that instant and goes home and regret about it.I have a daughter who is that way.
I advised her, if she likes it ,just buy it and dont think too much..Rather then go home empty handed and torturing herself mentally and then when she has made the decision to buy , no luck , that item was sold and out of stock.Darned!
Women of today has gained much freedom and independence and some are making more than the men. They have made an impact in every aspect of the soceity.
Women are redefining their roles in this new age.They are now equal and on par with the men ,though there are some bias systems that do not give them equal pay for equal work.
There are still gender inequalities in some industries or sectors of the economy.
The traditional thinking of women only belonging in the home and kitchen does not apply anymore in the modern world.
Women do have a choice to be a full time housewife or a working mum or the sole bread winner.They have more choices than men.
With this added on responsibilities of work and home, it is no wonder many women find themselves short changed.
They are now doing a man’s job and at the same time a woman’s responsibilities to the child and home. Their mothers only had to take care of the family and home .
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They are financially helping their husband’s burdens, but sadly many husbands do not help much with the houseworks.With their wives working , the men can work less and relax more .
The men are happier, they dont have to foot the whole bill for the family and they can have some golf game with their buddies.
The demands from the work and the responsibilities of being a wife , mother and housekeeper becomes too heavy for her to shoulder.
Many tasks need to be done and she may not find the time nor the energy to complete them .With so many tasks still undone ,how could she feel happy?
She cannot relax and be happy. Her unhappiness may snowballed as the workload piled up.
She wants to conform to her ideals or to those around her but it is impossible to achieve singlehandedly.Her anxieties and worries grows and she becomes depressed.More women than men are depressed.
Whether she is married or single ,most women worry about their changing body image,physical attractiveness , their self esteem and are always not contented with what they have.
The fashion industry is making their plight worse with the new size ‘0′ outfits.Why dont the fashion designers use real persons?
Women have a longer ‘to do list’ and they cannot sit back and relax, they dont have the time to be happy..LOL!
She can be unhappy over many things, it could be her husband, the children , her in laws , her home , her boss, her friends and lastly herself..LOL!
The key to happiness is contentment and in the little things in life and not in having plenty of money, achievements or possessions.
If you want them to be happy , the men must give them tons of love , understandings and a pair of able hands to help lighten her workload..Ha!ha!
Posted by Laura
credit and thanks to
http://www.aliciapatterson.org/APF0102/Scarf/Scarf.html
http://www.dailymail.co.uk/pages/live/articles/news/news.html?in_article_id=484134&in_page_id=1770
http://www.dailymail.co.uk/pages/live/femail/article.html?in_article_id=484355&in_page_id=1879
We’re tired all the time, say 60 per cent of working mothers
http://www.dailymail.co.uk/pages/live/articles/news/news.html?in_article_id=484348&in_page_id=1770
Posted in on September 27th, 2007 by suzie | | 5 Comments
Discover Art and Jean Claude Picot at Park West Gallery
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If you are looking for quality art pieces, this is the place for you.
The resident artist, Jean Claude Picot has been a professional artist since 1956. His works are influenced by the works of the Fauvist masters Vlaminck, Derain and Matisse. Picot has developed a unique style that recalls a Post-Impressionist application of color combined with the expressive qualities of form and line.
His favorites are landscapes. All of his work is distinctively his own style bright and cheerful. Picot actively works in many media – oil, acrylic, watercolor, etching, ceramic and most recently, serigraphy and embellished serigraphy.
Park West at Sea is home to the largest collection of fine art in the world. It conducts fine art auctions throughout the United States and Canada. Check it out to see the latest new offerings.
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Posted in on September 27th, 2007 by suzie | | 0 Comments
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